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First dance wedding song
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PeterQuaife
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9/20/2007 1:50 AM
    Hello folks

    I am getting wed shortly, and was wondering if any of you have any suggestions for a first wedding dance tune? I know it should be special to me and the future wife etc...but i have spent an age trying to pick...Joe Arthur, Ron Sexsmith, Tom McRae and the like, all close to the wife's heart, but the lyrics are a bit on the sadder side of life.

    thanks

    PQ
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    9/20/2007 2:16 AM
    Tammy Wynette "D-I-V-O-R-C-E"

    I dunno, first dance wedding song is too personal a thing, I think you've gotta figure it out yourself.
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    9/20/2007 2:20 AM
    Its a bit cliché, but have you considered LLCoolJ ?


    (good luck with the wedding)
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    9/20/2007 2:24 AM
    Shouldnt your wife to be choose the song? just throwin that out there .....



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    9/20/2007 2:32 AM
    Good luck with the wedding Peter

    ... not his biggest fan, but the girls love em...

    Damien Rice, the blowers daughter
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    9/20/2007 2:45 AM

    Damien Rice, the blowers daughter




    But make sure you have first dance before you serve the cake, lest you have a vommit-fest on your hands.
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    9/20/2007 2:55 AM
    cheers folks

    Parton, the wife to be is panicing about orders of ceremony, flowers, shoulder shimmer glitter, the wee things ye put on the table for the guests that they forget to take and all those kinds of lovely things.

    have half written a cheesy number (never written a tune before in my life), friend says he will record it and play it...not sure what to do.

    will keep the ipod on shuffle for the next week and see what happens

    thanks

    PQ
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    9/20/2007 3:04 AM
    Good luck with the wedding..!

    It is a personal choice but I think "Wild Horses" would be lovely.
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    9/20/2007 3:16 AM
    I'm having the same problems myself, getting married in a few weeks and we still can't decide whether to go with "Freewheel" by Duke Special/"Time after Time" by Cyndi Lauper and Sarah Brightman or (now for something completely different as they say) "Parachutes" by Something Happens.

    I'd say go with your own recording though, I would if I could.
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    9/20/2007 3:20 AM
    Its an occasional conversation for myself & my lady, post a few beers of course.

    She wants some Patsy Cline tune (apparently she has more than one !), whereas I'd opt for Springsteen's 'If I should fall behind'.
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    9/20/2007 4:03 AM
    I'd suggest Corrine Bailey Rae's "Just Like a Star" and Sade's "By Your Side". (Call me a soppy git!)
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    9/20/2007 4:08 AM
    Or Meat Loaf's "Bat Out of Hell"... also works for funerals!!
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    9/20/2007 4:31 AM
    Sade's "By Your Side".

    thats a definite runner for my missus anyway.....

    honky tonk woman would be my personal choice
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    9/20/2007 6:34 AM
    aretha franklin's version of 'you're all i need to get by'

    gorgeous!

    also al green's let's stay together

    congrats on the impending nuptuals - have a long and happy life together!!
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    9/20/2007 6:57 AM
    The way you look tonight - Frank Sinatra
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    9/20/2007 7:20 AM
    "Going Out" by Supergrass
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    9/20/2007 8:07 AM
    Lads, lads, lads.....I can't believe nobody's suggested The Beach Boys "God Only Knows." Possibly the most beautiful love song ever.

    My other choice would be The Pretender's version of "I Go To Sleep." Gorgeous song, great lyrics.
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    9/20/2007 9:46 AM
    'Jesus Is A Cunt'-Cradle Of Filth
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    9/20/2007 2:48 PM
    Congrats Folks - Mully, surely yours should be

    "Don't wanna go home
    Don't wanna go hoooooome
    This is the best trip I've ever been on"

    Peter, if you want a quickie, or even a fast song I'd go for Nick Cave's Breathless

    It's up in the morning and on the downs
    Little white clouds like gambolling lambs
    And I am breathless over you
    And the red-breasted robin beats his wings
    His throat it trembles when he sings
    For he is helpless before you
    The happy hooded bluebells bow
    And bend their heads all a-down
    Heavied by the early morning dew
    At the whispering stream, at the bubbling brook
    The fishes leap up to take a look
    For they are breathless over you
    Still your hands
    And still your heart
    For still your face comes shining through
    And all the morning glows anew
    Still your mind
    Still your soul
    For still, the fare of love is true
    And I am breathless without you
    The wind circles among the trees
    And it bangs about the new-made leaves
    For it is breathless without you
    The fox chases the rabbit round
    The rabbit hides beneath the ground
    For he is defenceless without you
    The sky of daytime dies away
    And all the earthly things they stop to play
    For we are all breathless without you
    I listen to my juddering bones
    The blood in my veins and the wind in my lungs
    And I am breathless without you
    Still your hands
    And still your heart
    For still your face comes shining through
    And all the morning glows anew
    Still your soul
    Still your mind
    Still, the fire of love is true
    And I am breathless without you
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    9/20/2007 3:10 PM
    But if you'd prefer it nice and slow...........

    By the time the best singer ever has finished crooning this into your lady's ear, she'll be putty in your hands. You'll never have to wash another dish again. And all the bridesmaids will want to shag you. I had to type all this out so I want an invitation too. :-)

    I'll mail you the MP3 if you'd like to hear it

    Mark Eitzel - Saved

    Your warm embraces thrill me
    In your arms I fall like a star
    Rain or shine, come what may
    In your arms the cold seems far away

    And there's no safety in this world
    I have no time for good luck charms
    But I still long for your touch

    'Cos I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved in your arms.

    An empty heart is like an empty house
    Filled with old ghosts and little else
    And secrets that everyone but me knows
    That without love, nothing grows

    And there's no safety in this world
    I have no time for good luck charms
    But I still long for your touch

    'Cos I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved in your arms.
    In your arms.

    I don't think about consequences
    I only know what my heart senses
    And it pulls me like an arrow straight to you, love
    It pulls me to what is true, love

    And there's no safety in this world
    I have no time for good luck charms
    But I still long for your touch

    'Cos I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved in your arms.
    In your arms.
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    9/20/2007 8:24 PM
    Congratulations. I reckon the Lou Rawls version of "You've made me so very happy" would be a pretty good song for just such an occasion
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    9/21/2007 1:35 AM
    ''Somewhere'' by Tom Waits or Johnny Cashs version of ''in my life''.Quality
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    9/21/2007 5:41 AM
    Posted By Pool Cleaning Guy on 20 Sep 2007 3:10 PM
    But if you'd prefer it nice and slow...........

    By the time the best singer ever has finished crooning this into your lady's ear, she'll be putty in your hands. You'll never have to wash another dish again. And all the bridesmaids will want to shag you. I had to type all this out so I want an invitation too. :-)

    I'll mail you the MP3 if you'd like to hear it

    Mark Eitzel - Saved

    Your warm embraces thrill me
    In your arms I fall like a star
    Rain or shine, come what may
    In your arms the cold seems far away

    And there's no safety in this world
    I have no time for good luck charms
    But I still long for your touch

    'Cos I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved in your arms.

    An empty heart is like an empty house
    Filled with old ghosts and little else
    And secrets that everyone but me knows
    That without love, nothing grows

    And there's no safety in this world
    I have no time for good luck charms
    But I still long for your touch

    'Cos I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved in your arms.
    In your arms.

    I don't think about consequences
    I only know what my heart senses
    And it pulls me like an arrow straight to you, love
    It pulls me to what is true, love

    And there's no safety in this world
    I have no time for good luck charms
    But I still long for your touch

    'Cos I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved in your arms.
    In your arms.




    that would be great, many thanks...can i PM you my address? is that possible?

    cheers

    PQ
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    9/21/2007 6:04 AM
    Click on his name & you can e-mail / message him with the send e-mail function.
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    9/21/2007 7:07 AM
    Posted By starbelgrade on 21 Sep 2007 6:04 AM
    Click on his name & you can e-mail / message him with the send e-mail function.




    good work, cheers
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    9/21/2007 9:21 AM
    'First Day of My Life' by Bright Eyes might do the trick Peter. And congrats again
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    9/26/2007 2:14 AM
    Congrats dude, bear in mind that the two of you have to dance to the first song and its easiest to dance to waltz so my suggestion is John Hiatt's 'Angel Eyes'

    Girl, youre looking fine tonight
    And every fellas got you in his sights
    What youre doing with a clown like me
    Is surely one of lifes little mysteries

    Chorus:
    So tonight Ill ask the stars above
    How did I ever win your love?
    What did I do, what did I say
    To turn your angel eyes my way?

    Well Im the guy who never learned to dance
    I never even got one second glance
    Across the crowded room, that was close enough
    I could look, but I could never touch

    Chorus

    Dont anybody wake me if this is a dream
    cause she is the best thing thats ever happened to me
    All you fellas you can but look all you like
    But this girl you see, shes leaving with me tonight

    And theres just one more thing I need to know
    If this is love then why does it scare me so
    Must be something only you can see
    But girl, I feel it when you look at me

    Chorus

    What did I do, what did I say
    To turn your angel eyes my way?
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    9/26/2007 3:10 AM
    I've never seen you looking so lovely as you did tonight
    I've never seen you shine so bright
    I've never seen so many men ask you if you wanted to dance
    They're looking for a little romance
    Given half a chance
    And I've never seen that dress you're wearing
    Or that highlights in your hair
    That catch your eyes
    I have been blind


    The lady in red is dancing with me
    Cheek to cheek
    There's nobody here
    It's just you and me
    It's where I wanna be
    But I hardly know this beauty by my side
    I'll never forget the way you look tonight

    I've never seen you looking so gorgeous as you did tonight
    I've never seen you shine so bright you were amazing
    I've never seen so many people want to be there by your side
    And when you turned to me and smiled it took my breath away
    And I have never had such a feeling such a feeling
    Of complete and utter love, as I do tonight

    I never will forget the way you look tonight
    The lady in red
    My lady in red
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    9/26/2007 3:11 AM
    Candle light and soul forever
    A dream of you and me together,
    Say you believe it, say you believe it,
    Free your mind of doubt and danger,
    Be for real don't be a stranger,
    We can achieve it, we can achieve it
    Come a little bit closer baby,
    Get it on, get it on,
    'Cause tonight is the night when two become one

    I need some love like I never needed love before
    (Wanna make love to ya baby)
    I had a little love, now I'm back for more
    (Wanna make love to ya baby)
    Set your spirit free, it's the only way to be

    Silly games that you were playing,
    Empty words we both were saying,
    Let's work it out boy, let's work it out boy,
    Any deal that we endeavour,
    Boys and girls feel good together,
    Take it or leave it, take it or leave it
    Are you as good as I remember baby,
    Get it on, get it on,
    'Cause tonight is the night when two become one

    I need some love like I never needed love before
    (Wanna make love to ya baby)
    I had a little love, now I'm back for more
    (Wanna make love to ya baby)
    Set your spirit free, it's the only way to be

    Be a little wiser baby, put it on, put it on,
    'Cause tonight is the night when two become one

    I need some love like I never needed love before
    (Wanna make love to ya baby)
    I had a little love, now I'm back for more
    (Wanna make love to ya baby)
    I need some love like I never needed love before
    (Wanna make love to ya baby)
    I had a little love, now I'm back for more
    (Wanna make love to ya baby)
    Set your spirit free, it's the only way to be

    It's the only way to be
    It's the only way to be


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    9/26/2007 3:13 AM
    I'm too sexy for my love too sexy for my love
    Love's going to leave me

    I'm too sexy for my shirt too sexy for my shirt
    So sexy it hurts
    And I'm too sexy for Milan too sexy for Milan
    New York and Japan

    And I'm too sexy for your party
    Too sexy for your party
    No way I'm disco dancing
    I'm a model you know what I mean
    And I do my little turn on the catwalk
    Yeah on the catwalk on the catwalk yeah
    I do my little turn on the catwalk

    I'm too sexy for my car too sexy for my car
    Too sexy by far
    And I'm too sexy for my hat
    Too sexy for my hat what do you think about that

    I'm a model you know what I mean
    And I do my little turn on the catwalk
    Yeah on the catwalk on the catwalk yeah
    I shake my little touche on the catwalk

    I'm too sexy for my too sexy for my too sexy for my

    'Cause I'm a model you know what I mean
    And I do my little turn on the catwalk
    Yeah on the catwalk on the catwalk yeah
    I shake my little tush on the catwalk

    I'm too sexy for my cat too sexy for my cat
    Poor pussy poor pussy cat
    I'm too sexy for my love too sexy for my love
    Love's going to leave me
    And I'm too sexy for this song
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    9/26/2007 3:13 AM
    Ok, I'll stop now!
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    9/26/2007 4:03 AM
    Please do.

    (I'm ashamed to say I recognised both sets of lyrics immediately)
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    9/26/2007 4:37 AM
    I should hope so - they are classics!
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    9/26/2007 8:05 AM
    Mark Eitzel - Saved

    Your warm embraces thrill me
    In your arms I fall like a star
    Rain or shine, come what may
    In your arms the cold seems far away

    And there's no safety in this world
    I have no time for good luck charms
    But I still long for your touch

    'Cos I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved in your arms.

    An empty heart is like an empty house
    Filled with old ghosts and little else
    And secrets that everyone but me knows
    That without love, nothing grows

    And there's no safety in this world
    I have no time for good luck charms
    But I still long for your touch

    'Cos I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved in your arms.
    In your arms.

    I don't think about consequences
    I only know what my heart senses
    And it pulls me like an arrow straight to you, love
    It pulls me to what is true, love

    And there's no safety in this world
    I have no time for good luck charms
    But I still long for your touch

    'Cos I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved
    I know I'm saved in your arms.
    In your arms.





    Mark Eitzel is the greatest lyricist in the history of popular and alternative music. Seriously. Not joking. No one comes close to the great man. Met him twice, once in The Village and once in Whelans and I was shaking afterwards. American Music Club are one of the greatest, most undervalued American bands of the last 25 years...

    If it's played at the wedding, yr wedding will officially be the coolest wedding ever!

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    9/26/2007 1:10 PM
    Good man Quint! You do know AMC, who are the greatest band of all time, are in Whelan's on Feb 2 next? See you up the front. :-)
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    9/27/2007 5:30 AM
    Posted By Pool Cleaning Guy on 26 Sep 2007 1:10 PM
    Good man Quint! You do know AMC, who are the greatest band of all time, are in Whelan's on Feb 2 next? See you up the front. :-)




    Jesus! Did not know that Pool Cleaner.. in the refurbished Whelans too.. I just hope it's not upgraded to the horrible Village where I've seen them a couple of times before...see my review below..

    http://www.cluas.com/music/gigs/american_music_club.htm

    New album is on the way too, according to website..sadly 2 of the original members Tim Mooney and Dan Pearson are no longer in the band, still should be great gig, it'll be jammed!
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    9/27/2007 11:08 AM
    I always thought Neutral Milk Hotel’s version of “I Love How You Love Me” was an amazing song, might be a bit rough sounding for a wedding though.


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    10/11/2007 2:36 AM
    thanks again folks for all the tremendous suggestions and replies.

    Its all done and dusted, amazing time altogether...now for the hard bit, being married....

    Anyways, 1st tune was James Taylor 'How sweet it is' followed by The Beatles 'In My Life' (thanks for that)

    great stuff

    PQ
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    10/12/2007 8:00 AM
    Congrats!
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    1/17/2008 7:15 AM
    What songs did ye end up doing the "dance of shame*" to?

    * = heard someone at a wedding say that - cracked me up!
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    1/17/2008 7:18 AM
    Posted By PeterQuaife on 11 Oct 2007 2:36 AM
    thanks again folks for all the tremendous suggestions and replies.

    Its all done and dusted, amazing time altogether...now for the hard bit, being married....

    Anyways, 1st tune was James Taylor 'How sweet it is' followed by The Beatles 'In My Life' (thanks for that)

    great stuff

    PQ




    Sorry -- I missed that post... sweet choices.
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    1/25/2008 11:27 AM
    I swear this is true, two of my best friends had Frank Zappa's "I have been in you" as their wedding song. It wasn't a very traditional wedding.


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